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Abandonment and Neglect

Los Angeles Christian Counseling

Christian Counseling for Neglect and Abandonment Issues

…for he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you. – Hebrews 13:5b

It is a sad fact that even in homes where there is no hint of abuse or domestic violence, there may still be issues of abandonment or neglect. Because this kind of problem so often “flies under the radar” so to speak, it frequently remains unaddressed until its effects begin to negatively impact other relationships, sometimes years down the line.

At Seattle Christian Counseling, we believe that you can overcome issues related to abandonment and neglect. Our team of professional counselors provides compassionate and faith-based counseling to those suffering from the effects of abandonment and neglect, helping them to begin the process of healing.

Browse our counselor directory or call us at 949-386-7179 to set up your initial risk-free appointment.

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Los Angeles Christian Counseling

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2023
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How Attachment Issues in Children May Affect Adults

Los Angeles Christian Counseling

The way we relate to others through our attachment style has the potential to make relationships more challenging or a lot easier. If you are experiencing challenges in relationships due to attachment issues, there are several steps you can take to move forward. Start by looking at your past As you consider your current attachment issues you need to think back to how you experienced care and how your caregivers met your needs. By using this information, you will be in a better position to understand which attachment style comes more naturally to you. For example, if your parents met your physical needs but were emotionally disengaged from you as...

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Oct
2023
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Signs of Attachment Disorder in Teens and What You Can Do to Help

Los Angeles Christian Counseling

Does your teen show signs of defiance or excessive anxiety? If so, they may be struggling with an attachment disorder. According to the United States Department of Health and Human Services (HHS), approximately 32 percent of 13-18-year-olds living in the United States have experienced some form of anxiety which may be rooted in a deeper cause. What is an attachment disorder? An attachment disorder is a disorder of social functioning. It is a mental health condition that makes it difficult for a person to form and maintain healthy emotional connections with others. Typically, it is the result of early life relational trauma such as inconsistent care-giving, neglect, or abuse during...

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Testimonials

I have known Shirley for many years. She is kind, caring and most all passionate. I highly recommend Shirley.

I have known Shirley O. Kauffman, PhD, MFC for over 14 years as we both serve on the board and as members of the organization Childhelp. She has deep empathy and understanding of human nature and works well with people. I recomend her as a therapist and a friend.Suzzy Canny Lake Balboa CA

Dr. Shirley is not only a kind and compassionate woman, but a wise and trustworthy source for me to share my good days and bad ones. I have always admired her for her biblical worldview. Everything she shares with me is filtered through the lens of scripture. It is so nice to know that I can get good and godly counsel from someone that is not only nice, but that shares the same beliefs as I do. The world gives much different advice —-focusing on self, and self help. Dr. Shirley has encouraged me not only to take care of myself, but to love others as a way to serve God. I highly recommend her.

Kristina Banaitis is a wonderful, skilled counselor who is yielded to the Holy Spirit as she listens and discerns what goes beyond words. Not only does she have experience to professionally counsel, she prays for wisdom and insight to be most effective. I am honored to lead prayer at our school and have gotten to personally know Kristina during the past few years as she has faithfully come weekly to pray. I can always count on her. When she says she will pray, I know she will. Kristina is patient and kind and she has a reassuring resilience and loyalty that can be trusted. Every time I am with her, I sense a peaceful strength that makes it easy to share and receive.

Kristina Banaitis is a very caring sweet and compassionate person. She is a very good listener and a great therapist, I would highly recommend her to my family, relatives, and friends.